Temperature problem solved. SO far.
I ran 10 gauge wire from the negative battery terminal to the ground post under the dash and that seemed to solve my hi temp problem.
Went our last weekend and the temperature guage never went above 170. Before i did it, it would ALWAYS hoover around 180-190.... and sporadically spike above 200, setting off that darn alarm.
It did not, however, keep the oil pressure alarm and the volt alarm from going off. I know that the volt meter is wrong because I compared it to the Perfect Pass volt meter and they were off.
Also, the water was noticably cooler than it was when the temperature was spiking, and it was like 80 degrees outside instead of like, 100. So, that likely contributed to the cooler temp.
Thanks for the tip Captn Rick! Hopefully it'll help others, too.