I just bought a new port side (VDrive) brass bolt for mine. I got it at my local Toyota dealer. Apparently it was used on many Toyota engines.
Here are the part numbers for both brass bolts:
9643223814 PLUG,WATER DRAIN LOCK (FOR CYLINDER BLOCK LH) this is for SB side for V-drive, port for DD
9091009087 PLUG,DRAIN COCK(BLOCK,RH) this is for port side of a V-drive, SB for DD
If he asks, tell the parts guy it's for a Lexus LS400 (not a boat).
The part numbers for the whole drain cock assemblies are in this diagram:
http://www.epicmarine.com/figures/e_Fig.php?Figure=03As for winterization technique, I run 5 gal of RV antifreeze through mine, then drain the antifreeze. That way, I figure if a pocket of fluid gets stuck somewhere and doesn't drain, it's just added reassurance it won't freeze. I'm not sure all RV antifreeze has (good) corrosion inhibitors, so I don't like to leave it in. I could be wrong - someone else might want to weigh in. For the heater, I blow out the lines with compressed air to get all the water/antifreeze out. Same could probably be done for showers and ballast.